Here's the deal: If you're pregnant with our child, we understand, we're not barbaric - we got that there's a waiting period.
The real deal of it is, there's nothing you can do to beat a guy off that really wants you.
If your wall is a foot and a half high, you're going to have a lot of guys playing in your yard, digging up your grass, messing up your flower bed.
You write that the "need to feel needed is way bigger to [men]than we've let on." You also write that a woman's financial and educational gains should "never be bigger than the relationship with the man." Do you think women's gains are wrecking relationships?
They do if you present the aura that you don't need a man. I think that a woman would love to have a shoulder to lean on, love to have a strong male figure around, but you've got to allow for that to happen in your life. Women get older, they have kids, they get the van, they get the route to the school, they get the little mom slacks that she drops the kids off in, the sneakers, she stops wearing the makeup.
The fact that you do not like what I'm saying does not stop it from being the truth about men.