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I refer to the ability to hear both oneself and others as bilateral (2-sided) listening.

When differences arise, folks who do bilateral listening are pros at taking into consideration both their concerns and others'.

Or is there something narcissistic about how they communicate in a relationship that's provocative?

Ever tried to be friends or a love partner with someone who only listens to him or herself?

At the same time, in a situation in which someone who tends toward narcissism wants something, and that desire is in conflict with what someone else wants, that's when the selfish side takes over.