Make sure your spelling and grammar are perfect; sounding illiterate is a huge turnoff.
Be original We can tell when your message is copied and pasted to multiple people.
Sure, it’s a pain to actually read through profiles and send unique messages to each person, but aren’t you here to find a date?
There are lots of reasons why someone might not message you back. Now have patience, or set your sights on one of the 10,000 other single people in your area.
There are lots of reasons why someone may sign into OKCupid, check their messages, and not message you back. Or, they might be checking their inbox quickly, and will respond later. But the quickest way to get yourself classified as a psycho is to message someone more than once without getting a reply. Repeat messaging says, “I am a creep with boundary issues.” And sure, there’s someone out there for everyone, but you will widen your dating pool by not being a creep with boundary issues.
Sorry pal, but she’s not gonna be into you, no matter how appealing her floppy hair is.