Men are slower to bond and there is nothing you can do to hurry this process for him.Your efforts to let him lead will usually be rewarded.
Don’t call him in the beginning She couldn’t wait the eight days for the second date that Ken set up. They had talked about favorite books and wine, so she bought him one of each.4. There is some driving distance between where Sandra and Ken live, so the dates have been longer than usual. You may think I am over reacting but I assure you that I AM NOT. I was flattered that she called and asked me out and I had a good time, but now it feels like too much to be seeing her again so soon.
So she took matters into her own hands and called him. While Sandra had Ken on the phone, she asked him out for Thursday night, creating her own second date. This is what Ken said to me after the second date.“Well now I have my third date in a week coming up. I mean it was nice and all but I felt uncomfortable. I just started dating online and want to meet other women, so now what do I do?
What Seems Like A Nice Thing Can Negatively Impact His Masculine Ego The risk of you initiating is HUGE because you could make the guy uncomfortable and look elsewhere for women who make him feel good about his masculine energy or enhance it. If you pursue him, chase him, call him, ask him out and buy him gifts, you are USURPING HIS MASCULINE ENERGY and emasculating him.
This will never help him feel good about you so DON’T DO IT!
Recently, my client Ken told me about a woman he just met online.