And I'm sorry, it's not about gender, but if you invite someone out, you should at least offer to pay." - Andrea 2.
"I think there are a few things that really let you know the guy is not relationship material. "When I was dating this guy back in college (aka when I had really low self-esteem and didn't know about feminism yet), he told me on the second date that he really "liked his girl to stay in shape and keep it neat down there" and insecure 19-year-old me was like "omg I expect the same from myself." Like how much more pathetic could I have been, by the way?
"Anyone who makes "politically incorrect" jokes on the first date or so really needs to go.
Like it's not even so much about like 'I'm offended at this joke' so much as 'Why does the best version of yourself that you're trying to present on a date think that racist jokes are funny and charming? "If they get really drunk on the first date." - Nicky 6.
If you're complaining about ten different people in one conversation, maybe the problem was you? "There is a "douchebag first date look" that always ends badly.