Guys, please remember to always allow the women to dictate the spacing and touch.
Warning: As much as I enjoyed the shit out of my bump-n-grind days we are going to forgo the Sisqo - Thong Song-esque dancing venues for various reasons.
For many, like my younger self, I’m sure the idea of dancing in front of and with random strangers is probably terrifying. If you can learn to shut your mind off and allow yourself to just let go and get lost in the moment, two people dancing can become one. Not to mention, the more you get out there, the more confidence you will have and the more partners you will attract.
And if you suck, then that’s ok too because then you at least have the start of a good story and a good laugh.
Oh, and I always recommend introducing yourself anyways IF someone comes up to you.