John: My parents actually met all three of the guys before they knew that we were together, and then I texted my mom, because we don't really chat on the phone, and told her. " Then she texted, "I don't even care, as long as you're happy." Now when we text or talk on the phone, she asks, "How are the boys?
And if one of the primaries was home, then his secondary could sleep in bed with him.
But if both primaries were home, then it was sofa city for the secondaries!
It consisted of a primary couple, in which each partner had a secondary boyfriend.
I met three of the four of the unit in Fire Island, although they were all based in the DC-metro area, where, in the gay community at least, there seems to be a growing number of unique arrangements involving more than two partners. For example, the primaries could have sex with each other or with their respective secondaries, but the secondaries could not have sex with each other or with their non-primary.
Predictably, because I was henceforth not permitted to ask any more questions, lest I break another "rule," I only grew more curious.